BR VIXEN BLOG
EXPLORE THE JOURNEY OF BECOMING A BELLE ROUGE VIXEN
Before we can ever think about learning sexy routines and performing for our significant others, the first thought that usually comes to mind is, "I should get sexy and try something different." What I have found out through experience is that if we stay ready, we don't have to get ready. That sounds like such a cliche however, it's true! Years ago when I was still just dating my now husband, I became comfortable in my relationship. Comfortable as in mostly wearing big t-shirts and lounge pants when I would go over to visit. I wouldn't do my face or much to my hair. I was truly comfortable in my relationship and was thinking to myself, "I have a man now, we have been together over a year why do I have to do anything extra." Well my mother sat me down one day and said that if I got too comfortable, someone else could easily come along take my place. It was a big wake up call. I could sense that my boyfriend at the time was not liking my nonchalant ways either. So from that moment on, I have taken the extra initiative to always put myself first and I get dolled up just for myself. Even if I am not going anywhere other than the gas station, best believe I have my hair done, and at least some brows and lip gloss if nothing else. I strongly believe that someone is always watching your every move, so why give them the satisfaction that you are not on your game.
You are probably reading this and wondering where exactly I am going with this post. I wholeheartedly believe that feeling and looking sexy has three main components.
3. Physical Execution
In order to be sexy, one has to believe that they are. That means we have to tell ourselves, "No matter who else is in the room, I am still sexy in my own right." This first step is also known as Self-Confidence. To look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful and deserve to be treated as such is a major step in becoming a Belle Rouge Vixen. Many times we allow ourselves to become submerged under the duties we have in life. Whether that be being a wife, mother, daughter, employee or caretaker, the objective is to put yourself first. If you don't believe this about yourself, then how do you expect others to believe it. Not to be confused with cockiness, having self-confidence is a mental awareness of our sexiness.
Okay, we all know that our appearance plays a major role in how sexy we feel. Nine times out of ten, the way we dress brings out a certain attitude. For example, going to work in slacks and a ponytail, we are feeling just okay and "I'm here because I have to be." Now when we go the extra mile and put on a nice form fitting dress, heels, hair whipping, lipstick and a beat face, we tend to walk around the office like "I'm the ish, and I know it. Thanks for noticing!" We don't even need anyone else to validate that we are sexy because we already know that we put in the extra work to achieve this goal! I dress up almost every single day for work at my daytime job. Some people look at me crazy at work like, "how long does it take you to get ready in the morning? Do you really do your hair every day? Are you going somewhere after you leave work?" These are common responses I get but they don't phase me one bit. These are compliments to my daily efforts to wanting to look good for myself. Going back to the introduction, "if you stay ready, you won't have to get ready."
We have nailed down the first two important aspects to becoming a Belle Rouge Vixen beginning with the mental mindstate and physical appearance. Now when it comes to dancing and seducing my husband, I am dressed the part and mentally I feel like Beyoncé as she prepares to enter on stage. It's time to execute and take the stage Vixens! At this point, we need something in our back pockets to whip out and perform. By attending my classes and having private sessions with Belle (me) you can learn so many moves to keep on deck when your man randomly asks you to "put on a show!" I strive to teach sensual and seductive moves that anyone can perform. Moves that are classy and mimic the vintage style of burlesque including but not limited to elongated arms, hair flips, and the art of body language.
Now that you have learned the three major steps to becoming a Belle Rouge Vixen, begin your journey with me and the other Belle Rouge Vixens! I have a judgment free program that can teach any woman how tap into their Vixen deep inside. So grab your dancing heels, a sexy outfit, get your hair whipping and join the #BelleRougeVixens now!
-Miss Belle Rouge
RaQuita Weathers, also known as Miss Belle Rouge, is a working wife that has dedicated her life to helping women reach their sexiest potential.